Life's Cycle

"People come and go", such a cliche but sometimes things that we do not want to believe could happen. It is plausible and could be very untimely, a ricochet bullet. You would not notice it but you can feel its effect so soon that you will never be aware of its capacity to enter and gnaw in what you thought was an unreceptive persona. like venom that slowly creeps into your vain and too often it causes death. lucky if you were able to survive, but what if just what if... your body gives up suddenly. What could be the consequences? it's either you die or you die (PERIOD)

Realizing how short life could be, I also come to the realization that our good moments with other people and the chances we are given to be with them are counted and limited, it is never timeless and not meant to be forever. Maybe,memories are made so that we can somehow go back to the good old days, so that we can remember and we can reminisce. These memories will remind us how good or bad we treated those persons, either we regret it or we become complacent with what we have done to their lives. what part we played and how well or worst we played it. And when they go, do not be sad but at least be thankful especially if you feel and know that you haven't wasted any of your chances. Be thankful because you became part of their lives and them to yours. Accept the changes for you will be used to it sooner than you think. If some people leave, others will come not to compromise for the loss but to keep the cycle going. They will come because they simply have a role to play in your life and when the shoot is over, they will have to go too. I guess it is how things really work. I am not a cynic, I am just a realist. You lose people for certain reasons which you can barely explain. No matter how attached we are to them, goodbyes are necessary in this life.

All of us might be afraid of being left alone and being left behind but nobody will ever be left alone or left behind if we don't let it happen. We could always look for new companions, for new friends, for new people who will understand us and to whom we can relate our lives fully and comfortably. Lastly, we have ourselves. You know what's good when people leave you? It is when you learn to find yourself and to know that you can survive, breathe and function normally without them whom you rely on for what it seems like a century or so. We could be happy without other people because in the middle of every parting, you are alone and hollow but you see, you still continue to exist.

For people who never moved on, it is certainly not the end of your life, let go and live; for people who moved on, good job put in mind that it will never bethe last time that you will have to go through it and for people who will have to move on sooner or later, it is never easy but be tough. Toughness isn't about being unbreakable but it's about standing still even if every part of you seems to be broken.

"When you lose someone, continue to live because you need to see how other stories will end", I'll end up with this line form My Sassy Girl (American version).

Ciao.

*how can you lose someone? death, separation, disappearance*